People often assume women look for money, providers, financial support, or something similar. And while we cannot speak for all the girls in the world, most women are not interested in any of the aforementioned phenomena (especially in the modern world, where females are emancipated and very independent). We all seek love: someone who will understand us, talk with us, and stay with us in the happiest and the hardest moments of our lives. In collaboration with our friends from Romance Compass Scam, we have prepared a 5-step guide that will help you become a man of any girl’s dreams.
- Take Pride in Your Look
Don’t ever believe people that claim that the outer beauty matters less than the inner one. We are not talking about stereotypical beauty traits like perfectly fit body or ideally white smile. What really matters is the way you maintain your physical appearance. You see, it indicates the level of your self-assurance and self-respect, which, in fact, determines a real man. Good grooming, clean and fitting clothes, normal body shape and odor – this short and simple list is quite enough for a woman to perceive your appearance as attractive in every dimension.
- Know what you want
In contrast to popular opinion, girls do not really like self-indulgent takers and scapegraces. You do not need to be a multimillionaire to be their dream man. Having transparent and understood ideas of both your career and personal life would be enough. Your main aim here is not to act coquettishly by hiding your intentions and making a great deal of it; this behavior is only okay for a one-night stand. If you’re looking for something more long term, you need to talk openly about what you aim for and how you are going to achieve it.
- Listen and speak
Ah, the society is filled with horrific stereotypes. Stay away from those. The one we are talking about now tells us that girls only need to talk about their problems and concerns to somewhat unload their mind (and the feedback is not that needed). It has nothing to do with reality. Modern girls inevitably fall for guys who are able to both listen tolerantly and make good interlocutors, both interesting and attentive.
- Understand her needs
Relationships always come along with compromises. One of the most important moments in the relationship development is to understand the needs of your partner and make sure that she is aware of your needs and thoughts. Only in this way can a healthy partnership be constructed. However, we are now focusing our attention on you becoming a man of her dreams, so don’t forget to dig into her needs and fit them into your universe of interests.
- Don’t forget about romance
In the world of high mobility and speed dating, we tend to overlook such important part of interpersonal relationships as romance. No need to sing serenades in the late night (and she wouldn’t probably be that happy) and take her on a romantic trip on an air balloon – it might be too much. A candlelit dinner, fresh roses, beautiful words whispered right in her ear – voila, you are a man of her dream!